Why don’t I want to have sex with my husband?

My husband and I have been together for 8 years total and have 3 young children. For the majority of our relationship, I was always the one with the high sex drive and he had the low sex drive. Well, I take that back. I guess the better way to explain it, is to say that he was in the lazy one in the sexual department of our relationship. He was good with sex as long as he didn’t have to please me because in his words, “You take too long to get off.’ I’m sorry that telling me to bend over, without four play, followed by a 3 minute pounding doesn’t send me into a world of pure ecstasy. But lately, it’s like our roles have reversed. My husband has been wanting it all the time and I want absolutely NOTHING to do with sex. I’m not horny, the idea of having sex is very unappealing to me. He has even offered to be sure that I get my pleasure but even that doesn’t sound good. And if I don’t give it, he gets rude and pouts and it downright frustrates me. It turns him into a petulant child. I don’t know why all of a sudden I do not want to have sex. I thought it was a new medication that I had started so I stopped but I still am not craving sex. My husband has been annoying me a lot more than usual lately. my husband has that kind of personality, where he thinks jacking with you until you’re pissed off is hilarious and then being offended when you actually get mad and doesn’t understand how you didn’t know he was only kidding. And with this quarantine, instead of working, I have been at home with 3 children, ages 8, 4 & 3 who demand so much of me during the day and are always touching me. By the time my husband gets home, all I want is peace and quiet and to not be touched. What should I do>

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