I been drawn into this girl. The problem I suppose it that we grew up together. I never thought of her as a a woman before recently. I made my intentions to her clearly, but she did noted that we are like “brother and sister”. The problem is that she is very very flirty with me at some point, but distant when I make an erotic move on her. When I don’t mention anything sexual or make erotic moves, she becomes flirty, dresses very sexy, touching me, teasing me, kissing my cheeks, but when I make sexual behavior and erotic moves, she withrawn. As an example.

One time I asked her why is she playing with me, and she replied that she loves to be chased, then paused and said don’t try to chase me, you are not suppose to chase me.

What is in her mind?? Thank you