My boyfriend and I have been living together for around 6 months, the first 2 were perfect. Now his friends are up 3/4 nights per week, I do everything around the house, he sleeps in on Sundays whilst I look after his kid we get at weekends. We’ve had a few small arguements where he has completely blown up swearing at me storming out the room etc. This weekend we were visiting my mum and her cat scratched his wee boy, he went totally nuts and charged upstairs after the cat going crazy so obviously my mum was running around after him telling me he is clearly a nutcase. So this only happened Saturday I’m still trying to process it in my head…so this morning he has a funeral, I get up early to get his kid in a shower and iron his suit, he gets up and immediately starts asking if my dad has sent me the money he owes me because he isn’t going to be able to buy his friend a drink today, I said I was getting it today and he was waving his arms around saying ‘when though?! It’s all take take take!!!’ can I point out I lent my dad this money, and he owes me it back, it has nothing to do with my bf.

So now I’m on my way to work with an overnight bag because I have absolutely no idea what to do.