So.. I think I’m falling in love with the drummer of my band.
When I first met him I thought he was a really funny, nice guy but throughout the last few months, I’ve been thinking about him a lot more often. I’ve never been in a relationship before and I’m really shy when it comes to asking people out or confessing. But the thing that really holds me back from asking him to go out sometime is that if he doesn’t like me back, I might ruin the band. Things would get really awkward and because I play the bass guitar and he plays the drums we have to work together more often. I’m scared that if I confess I would get too shy to talk to him or even look him in the eye. I don’t know if I should let it be, or take a risk. Maybe you can help me sort this out?