Ok, so. I’ve been in a relationship with a woman for 6 months. For the most part, things are going good.
But obviously there are a couple of things I need advice with, otherwise I wouldn’t be here.
Firstly, we haven’t been intimate for a couple of months almost. I know she is on antidepressants and I know from personal experience that they can and do alter sex drive. But she is scared of changing her meds as she had a bad reaction last time she tried.
Secondly, and this is the main issue I have. When she split with her husband last year, she had a fling with her sons father and got pregnant. Its a year since they both decided to abort the baby. But they are still constantly messaging each other. I don’t believe at all that there is something going on between them. But as i’ve never been in the situation, I don’t know if it normal for them to be txting each other about how they regret the abortion. And he often comes over her house to discuss the issue. She isn’t comfortable with us being in the same room, so I have to leave when he does. Not that i’ve given her any reason to not be comfortable.