So I’ve been with my girlfriend 4 years, I’ve always had a but of a problem with jealousy, but in my opinion only where its justified. My girlfriend is still close/in contact with multiple ex partners. I know she would never cheat, but she is always liking and commenting on their social media pages and visa versa, I know its harmless but it still bothered me and she knows this. I think im bothered by it more because I am not close with an any partners. I dont want to control her or stop her from feeling like she has her freedom, but I know I wouldn’t be liking my ex partners pictures and stuff if I know it bothered her. It doesn’t help that all of her ex partners are older and better looking than me. I know I’m an insecure guy, and I don’t want to bring up the issue with her again, I just cant stop comparing myself to her ex’s and its making me super depressed.
Am I the only person who feels this way and what can I do to help this situation?