I have recently switched colleges and need more time to work on school and myself. I love my boyfriend but i dont have the time i want to have for him and the time i do spend is holding me back from really getting my sh*t together. I tried to break up with him but he was a lot more upset than i thought he would be and i couldnt stand it and we got back together. How do I breakup with him without completely breaking his heart and feeling like a horrible person? Everything points to us not working out, he doesnt want to work on his future, were complete opposites, but i care about him. Hes also been paranoid ive been cheating on bim since i tried to break up eith him and its stressful for me since i really dont have time to reassure him or text him all the time.