My wife was a virgin when we married, so obviously her sexual IQ is not very high. But i think one reason she was a virgin is because she is a total prude. When we have sex (which might be once a month), it is the same thing over and over again. Everytime I try to suggest sonething new she shoots it down without any discussion. When I try to talk about sex, she gets embarrassed. Even though she says otherwise, I honestly think trying something different is dirty and gross and that she’ll be a slut if she does. How do I get her to be more adventerous?