My girlfriend’s mad at me for not being serious. I joke too much and I don’t know what to do

So, we recently got in a relationship and this is my first. I met her online and we haven’t really see each other’s faces, but I know where she’s from, her age, etc. She starts asking these random questions since yesterday, I don’t know how to answer her, so I just make jokes and laugh it off. Today, she asked me “What if I’m a 60 years old”. I answered, “I know you’re not”. She asked back, “How would you know?”. And that’s where it hits me. I don’t know, but I’m totally sure she is not. So, I stall, but she kept demanding for the answer. I freaked out. And then, she was just like, “Nevermind, just forgot about it. If you can’t be serious, then whatever”. I apologized to her, and she accepted it. But I know she’s still mad at me. What do I do? How do I be serious?

2 thoughts on “My girlfriend’s mad at me for not being serious. I joke too much and I don’t know what to do

  1. Why is it so hard to answer her questions? Online dating is dangerous, so if you guys are now dating then she has a right to these questions. Feel free to ask her questions too. Instead of just being lazy and apologizing to her in hopes that it’ll all just magically disappear for you. Tell her, that this is your first time dating and she just randomly started asking you twenty questions and you felt overwhelmed.

    Then apologize again, AND really mean it. Know what you did wrong. She was asking you important things and you were just laughing her face to get out of it. See what you did wrong? Hopefully, because don’t bother apologizing when you have no clue what you’ve done wrong, it’s a worthless apology. A women can smell that bullshit from a mile away.

    So again, tell her it was wrong of you to joke, that maybe as a compromise she can ask you 3 questions a day, and you’ll give her a serious answer. AS IN YOU’LL ANSWER THE QUESTION. You can even request that you have time to think the questions over etc if that helps. The fact that you were joking…it just feels like you have things to hide. But I’m going to give you the benefit of the doubt and say that you really were just nervous.

    Anyways, like I said just talk to her. And if she won’t compromise with you well then she’s not very good for you. Plain and Simple.

  2. I don’t think you should do what the other comment said, if you haven’t seen each others faces then why would she expect a serious relationship? I would ask her why she would ask you something like that. I personally think its a dumb question, and an even dumber thing to be angry about. But, I do think you should tell her how you feel, honesty and communication does wonders for any relationship. 🙂

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