We have been dating for 3 years. I love everything about her personality and sense of humor. We get along great, share the same goals and even the same profession. I could see having kids and a family with her.
When we started dating we were having sex pretty consistently but I was never initially attracted to her for her looks, it was always a personality thing. She isn’t really my type on paper – I prefer petite and feminine, she is larger and doesn’t dress very feminine. Over the years though I find myself looking at other women more and more and wondering if I am attracted enough to her for the long haul. In the past 6 months or so, we haven’t had much sex at all, 0 times in the last few months. She gets undressed in front of me and I don’t really feel anything. I am torn between my lack of sexual lust and our complete compatability otherwise. Part of me thinks we are getting older anyway so lust shouldn’t be high on my priority list, and I should overlook this.
What do I do?