Hi there.

I have been married for 2 years and I love my wife very much. She is the centre of my world but when my world goes quiet my mind drifts back to my ex. We were engaged for 2 years and together for 8 years. I moved abroad and my ex was meant to join me but it didn’t work out and we split up. We were friends for a long time. Since I have been with my wife there has been a nagging feeling in my stomach and I have tried so many things to get rid of the feelings I have toward my ex but I find it difficult to get closure. I don’t want my ex back. I just want the feelings to go away. Any advice would be grateful.