November 1st, 2017, I met this guy off POF in person and seemed to get along great. 15 days later, He told me I wasn’t girlfriend Material. Now, I have met another guy off POF and we’ve been seeing each other (boyfriend and girlfriend) for 2 months now. My question is, why was I so ready to jump off a cliff for a guy I only saw for 16 days, but for a guy I’m currently seeing, I find myself not thinking of him 24/7 or not knowing if I see him in my future?