My boyfriend isn’t attracted to me anymore and it’s completely changed our relationship. We have been together for just over 3 years. We used to be a very loving, cuddly couple and in the past couple months that has been all but completely stripped from our relationship. He is very blunt about how he feels and has told me I have put on too much weight and that the downstairs smells too unsettling. This is not a new issue but I feel limited as most sites say it is self cleaning and not much can be done. So I am focusing on the weight. We just had a candid conversation about whether we should break up because our relationship is not what it was but we still love each other and desperately want it to work. Many things in our relationship have also been tainted from fighting about fetishes to weight gain. And we just don’t know if this is salvageable. I am trying to lose the weight (estimate it’ll take 3 months to be happy) and at that point we can see if the attraction is back. But we don’t know what to do in the meantime. How do we mend this?