Hello! 

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 7 months now. He lives about 4.5 hours away from me, so most of our relationship is long distance. When we first started dating we would send nudes and get off together on facetime or snapchat. As our relationship has grown I have learned that he watches porn a bit, but I am not very into porn because I identify as demisexual. Him and I discussed this a few times. Well, recently we spoke about it again because now we only mess around when we are together in person (maybe two weekends a month, but it depends) and he said messing around with me on snapchat/facetime makes him feel ‘dirty’ or that he is ‘cheating on me’ because he needs the physical touch. I asked him why he watches porn then and he said that ‘its fake people so it’s different’. I guess I am looking for an opinion on how to handle this situation! I am not a big fan of us only messing around the few times, but I also don’t want to overstep boundaries with him.