I met my bf 3 years ago online playing a game. Friends first, then talked for months. Problem is we were both married. I told my husband a month after I met him in person and was divorced a year later. BF left his wife and now lives with family but is still not divorced – he has said he is going to have to get lawyers involved because she won’t negotiate, but still hasn’t after 2 years of separation. Am I stupid to stick around and keep waiting?