I’m pretty sure I know the answer…I just need a second opinion

Ok, so I really like this guy ( he and I have dated in the past ) but he really confuses me to no end. Whenever I get with someone new and he finds out about it ( usually from a mutual friend ) he starts telling me how much he loves me or how he misses me and that he was dumb for breaking up with me. Now we are…well we’re not in a relationship…we’re basically fuck buddies…which is fine with me…but he says he doesn’t want me dating anyone but he and I aren’t dating. He basically wants me to be his sex toy ( which I’m ok with I guess ) but the problem is he knows I have very strong feelings for him and the last time we talked (before all this ) he told me he really loves me and I told I’m I wasn’t sure if he was on the same page as me with relationships because I just don’t want to date to date. I want more then that ( I’d like to find a life partner, settle down and start a family ) he told me he wanted that…but he said he had to think things over and when he got back to me on the matter it was all this sex stuff ( which once again is ok I guess…). He didn’t use to be like that. When we dated way back he was a really sweet and caring guy who didn’t make me feel like I was being ( slightly) manipulated….

One thought on “I’m pretty sure I know the answer…I just need a second opinion

  1. Stop having sex with him!!!! If you stop having sex with him and he phases out of your life, then you know what he stuck around for. respect yourself! if you stop having sex with him and he stays, and I mean really stays, no 1 month type of crap, i mean like 3 and a half months at the least, then he cares about more than just your body. Don’t let him play with your emotions like that. It’ll suck and you’ll want him in more than a few ways, but I promise, it’ll be worth it in the end. He’ll show you his true colors and you can make a decision then. (and make the right one)

    good luck friend 🙂

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