Ok so, basically, I’ve liked this girl for a some time now(I’ll call her A), about three years, but I’ve never told her how I feel, and she’s had a boyfriend for the past year, so I’ve been even more wary on letting her in on how I feel. Recently we’ve gotten the closest we’ve ever been, we’re almost each other’s best friends, but I don’t think she likes me in the same way I do her, but that might just be because I’m pretty insecure, or so I’m told. And even more recently I’ve learned that another girl likes me, a lot. I’ve hung out with her and she’s asked me out and expressed her feelings, but I’m not really sure how I feel about her, I’ve never actually dated, partially because I’ve been waiting for A for the past few years. I don’t like this new girl in the same way I like A, but I could see myself eventually liking her I guess. Should I tell A how I feel? She seems happy with her current boyfriend and I really don’t want to ruin our friendship, or cause problems in her relationship. I think about A all day, and when I hang out with this other girl, I only think of A and wish I were hanging out with her. It’s gotten to the point where I can’t enjoy the things I would normally love, because A isn’t there. Should I just stay friends with A and try out this other girl? I wouldn’t want to hurt her feelings if we started a relationship and I wasn’t committed. Or should I tell A how I feel and possibly get some closure?
Sunday, September 26, 2021