My girlfriend is an athlete and only recently have I discovered that she has been talking and training with the older boys. I genuinely feel jealous and upset and i really dont know why. I asked her about it and she says “oh they’ve got great bodies, so good looking, they drive me to the stadium…” and that just annoys me more. I know its a bad thing but to be honest, i hate the idea of her even thinking about another guy. I know it sounds controlling and worse than it is because i dont act out on these ideas i have just kept it bottled up. I love her but my question is: Is this jealousy called for or unnecessary?