Hi. I’m in a relationship with a boy and I have dated him before but I don’t feel right. I like this boy (lets say J for time saving) a lot but he can be manipulative. J has said multiple times that he wants to kill himself and that he was stabbed etc by gangs for sympathy. I also feel like J is blackmailing me as he has photos I don’t want leaked and I know he would leak them if he must. Also I have feelings for another boy I have liked before, I have like this person for ages but got over them. all of a sudden I cant stop thinking about him and I think I still like him and we text a lot and are really close. People say im not happy with J and they may be right what do I do and who so I pick?