I want to be good at my relationship. I have anger and i’m overthinker. I want to save my relationship.

First we had casual relationship, but sometimes i feel that she is mine. She knows that i like her and she also likes me, we confess it. I want her sometimes really bad.She tells me that she doesn’t have mood so she can not talk with me or meet me. This always makes me uncomfortable and when i don’t get answer from her. I want reason every time for whatever she is doing, why she is not replying, why she doesn’t want to meet etc and she doesn’t have reason every time. At that time I become angrier, in anger I speaks bad and this is destroying our relationship now. I have problem i think too much about things. What can i do now? I want to save this relationship.

One thought on “I want to be good at my relationship. I have anger and i’m overthinker. I want to save my relationship.

  1. You are causing yourself to overthink because you seem to have control issues. When you feel yourself getting angry because she doesn’t answer, stop. Don’t allow yourself to question what is she doing/why is she not answering/who is she talking to instead of me? The answer to those questions are honestly whatever or whoever she wants to. You stated that you two aren’t in an official relationship but you feel she’s yours, even if you were, you don’t own her you would be her partner/equal. A good way to help change your mindset would be to preoccupy yourself before you become consumed by worrying what she’s doing. You can be doing something else. Don’t forget she is a separate entity with her own friends and life and you are to.

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