I don’t want to be the only one who pays
I’ve been with my boyfriend for a few months and things are really good mostly. But I feel like he is really stingy with money when it comes to putting money into our relationship like going on dates, buying a gift for valentines day, or anything really. But he has no problem spending money on energy drinks for himself or an $80 video game. I just don’t understand why he is like this. I understand he has been single for a long time so maybe he’s just not used to the changes that happen when you’re in a relationship. Am I over reacting? Am I being silly? Should I try to talk to him about it? What should I do?