I am at a lost, lately my girl and I have been having arguments over the tiniest things like spending money on a sandwich or who pays for dinner or most recently she got upset I got asked to be a groomsman in a wedding and I was honored and happy and she was upset because “I am never like this”. Then those slowly progress into bigger arguments. I tell her I just want to talk about it not fight but she does not seem to know how to talk about upsetting things. So her answer is to just ignore me until she is no longer mad but that drags all day and a whole day is wasted. Is there anything I can do to help her talk to me instead of ignore me? When do you realize you want to be treated better and move on?