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Fiancés secret porn phone

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Fiancés secret porn phone

Me and my fiancé have been together 10 years. We don’t really have sexual intimacy any more due to my health, but we still kiss and cuddle a lot and are deeply affectionate and in love.

Today I found his old phone and thought it was odd that it was in the bathroom, so I snooped (guilty I know). No messages or other women in his contacts. But a hell of a lot of porn. Files upon files of other women from the internet, naked and sometimes dressed. There’s also a snapchat file with nude and provocative pictures in. But I tried logging into his snapchat and couldn’t. I don’t know whether these came off line or what.

Point is, I feel sad and hurt by all this porn, but don’t know if I should, because he’s got to get it from somewhere and if I’m not sexually active then I can’t blame him. But I think it’s the fact it’s all on an old phone that bothers me? Seems secretive? I told him I found the phone (didn’t say I turned it on) and he said it was bundled in his trousers and must have fell off his shelf. I know that’s a lie because the history shows he looks at porn every day – probably in the shower whilst I’m asleep.

I cant talk to him about it because I’m guilty of snooping. I think the snapchat thing is bothering me because I don’t know if they’re images offline or not.

I need to not be grumpy with him when he gets home. Help.

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