Feeling something for my best friend

Hi. So, I’ve been dating this girl for almost 3 years now, just started dating before entering university. I don’t have many friends, around 5 or 6, but in last August I met a girl, same age, and we like almost the same things (movies, political positions, and much more) and we became like best friends. But…well, we’ve been talking daily since December, when we went together to an event (it was really awesome). In the last weeks, I’ve been thinking too much about her, we talk about almost everything and I feel we both feel the same way. My dating is not bad, actually really good but..I don’t know, never betrayed my girlfriend, and I never will, but I am really afraid. Do I end my date and try to date my friend? Should I just pretend I never felt anything? Should I start to get away from this friend? I am confused, my girlfriend knows her, but they are not friends…I am really lost, please help me.

Also, this has got me feeling bad, as I really don’t know what to do, I haven’t been sleeping well, worried all the time. I just don’t want to mess with someone or get messed up.

One thought on “Feeling something for my best friend

  1. Break up with your girlfriend. Once the feeling lives, then it’ll never just magically go away. The fact that you feel something for this girl has already wronged your girlfriend and if you just try to ignore it eventually SOMETHING will happen. And you don’t want to be a cheater right? So, my advice is break up. I don’t know what kind of relationship you have with your girlfriend, like if you can talk to her or whatever. But yeah…what a shitty situation for all parties involved.

    Of course, what men will tell you, is make sure the other girl will totally date you first because if not then you’ll end up alone and god forbid that can’t happen. But you want another girl…sorry but your relationship with your girlfriend is over from that fact alone, she just doesn’t know it yet.

    It’s good to have a girl you can ACTUALLY relate to because my god no malexfemale relationships these days seem to have ANYTHING in common with each other. Oh, yeah also, if you don’t want to look like a total douche-bag. I’d suggest NOT jumping to the next girl right away. Let things calm down first before asking her. Because chances are if she’s not head over heels for you then she’ll think poorly of you for dumping your long term relationship just to jump ship with her right after.

    Hope this helps you in some way. ♥

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