Do I end things with him?

In April I met this guy and we’ve been dating ever since, yet he doesn’t want to put a label on it. He goes to another state for college and he is horrible texter. He texts me like once or twice a week at most, and when I told him about how it makes me sad he just said he doesn’t want to change how he texts to fit my needs. I used to be fine with barely texting, but now that I can’t see him in person anymore it feels like he doesn’t exist in my life anymore. He reassures me that I am important to him, and that I’m the only one he wants to be with at the moment. I truly believe he is sincere when he says that, but his actions don’t represent that. When we hangout it’s wonderful and I can really see us working out in the future, but lately I’ve been feeling like I’m wasting my time on someone who doesn’t appreciate me. I just want him to realize that he might lose me over this.

2 thoughts on “Do I end things with him?

  1. End it. He isn’t willing to consider your feelings. He needs a wake up call so you don’t waste more of your time. He’s being dismissive and selfish. That’s my thought.

  2. Yeah you should probably end it. It has some learning to do and emotional growth for empathy about understanding his partners emotional needs. Its not your job to train him or to suffer until he matures. Hope the next one is a little more empathetic.

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