I’ve been with my fiance for a total of almost 5 years and we’ve been engaged for a little over 3. He has a lot of health issues. He is unable to work and is on disability. Which I encouraged him to do when he got really sick. So I work full time and pay all the bills he does give me $400 a month but lately I’ve been running low on money I only get paid every two weeks. Plus I am not 100% healthy myself I have a lot of medical bills. I feel like I’m barely able to keep my head above water. And we haven’t had sex in I couldn’t tell you how long. Not that it’s all that important to me but I just don’t feel sexy or wanted any more. I don’t think that he would be able to make it on his own. So I feel obligated to stay with him. I love him i honestly really do but I’m just at a loss. I have no idea what to do. And I don’t want to talk to friends or family about this cause I know it won’t stay between us. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks.