Hello I am in relationship with my bf from last 4.5 years. And our aim is to get success that is to make our relationship official. But the problem is that his opinion is after marriage I shouldn’t work in any company as he will get enough salary.. But my family wants that i should continue my job even after marriage as it makes a person independent. My father is saying that all of your cousins are also work in even after their marriage then why don’t u.. And my boyfriend don’t agree with this fact.  Please help!   I am not able to decide what to do and what not to do. .please help me asap