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Category: Cheating & Infidelity

Anonymous Relationship Advice

Help?

I am “friends with benefits” with my best friend. I love him dearly, and I asked him if he wanted a relationship earlier this year and he said no, that he doesn’t want anything to change between us. It really hurt my ego. Fast forward I went out of state and actually found a great man who became my boyfriend who actually treats me very nicely. I want to marry him one day. How do I end things with fwb best friend if we never dated to begin with? He also called me his “baby” yesterday when a mutual friend asked us about our “love life.” I am confused. I don’t want to keep secrets. What do I say to my best friend? Hey I found a boyfriend, thanks for the good times? Seems kinda harsh to me, am I wrong?

Please some advice

I am “friends with benefits” with my best friend. I love him dearly, and I asked him if he wanted a relationship earlier this year and he said no, that he doesn’t want anything to change between us. It really hurt my ego. Fast forward I went out of state and actually found a great man who became my boyfriend who actually treats me very nicely. I want to marry him one day. How do I end things with fwb best friend if we never dated to begin with? He also called me his “baby” yesterday when a mutual friend asked us about our “love life.” I am confused. I don’t want to keep secrets. What do I say to my best friend? Hey I found a boyfriend, thanks for the good times? Seems kinda harsh to me, am I wrong?

Please some advice

I am “friends with benefits” with my best friend. I love him dearly, and I asked him if he wanted a relationship earlier this year and he said no, that he doesn’t want anything to change between us. It really hurt my ego. Fast forward I went out of state and actually found a great man who became my boyfriend who actually treats me very nicely. I want to marry him one day. How do I end things with fwb best friend if we never dated to begin with? He also called me his “baby” yesterday when a mutual friend asked us about our “love life.” I am confused. I don’t want to keep secrets. What do I say to my best friend? Hey I found a boyfriend, thanks for the good times? Seems kinda harsh to me, am I wrong?

Please some advice

I am “friends with benefits” with my best friend. I love him dearly, and I asked him if he wanted a relationship earlier this year and he said no, that he doesn’t want anything to change between us. It really hurt my ego. Fast forward I went out of state and actually found a great man who became my boyfriend who actually treats me very nicely. I want to marry him one day. How do I end things with fwb best friend if we never dated to begin with? He also called me his “baby” yesterday when a mutual friend asked us about our “love life.” I am confused. I don’t want to keep secrets. What do I say to my best friend? Hey I found a boyfriend, thanks for the good times? Seems kinda harsh to me, am I wrong?

Sticky situation

I am “friends with benefits” with my best friend. I love him dearly, and I asked him if he wanted a relationship earlier this year and he said no, that he doesn’t want anything to change between us. It really hurt my ego. Fast forward I went out of state and actually found a great…
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Confused??

how to put it, a girl whos been my bestfriend for 2 years, 9 months in a relationship, the last 2 months have been hell, pointless fights that are one sided and I have to sit on my feelings till she feels like she can talk about it, anyway, recently she cheated, blacked out, woke up with a guy, but wasn’t mad, walked him home, the next night he hit her up, wanting to drink again, this time she was drunk but more than aware, asked to make out, and hook up, she said yes, told me she didn’t think of me once, wait a few days before ever telling me, but in another pointless argument, she had a note prepaired, but wasn’t willing to talk to me, since then she’s blocked me and cut me out of her life, she told me she doesn’t regret it and doesn’t know why she did it, but she did, I hastily exposed her that she cheated on social media and with who, I’ve tried since to think about everything, and ask her friend to relay a message, my feelings and what not, closure, told me to suck a dick basicly, sadly I still have feelings for her and would take her back, problem is we work together, bosses know and are keeping us on different schedules, the problem i’m having is that I cant let go, i’m obsessing, and its to a point where I cant sleep for more than 4 hours, and I haven’t beable to really eat in 4 days I had one good discussion with an ex about it, that it seems she has low self esteem, and maybe has been using me the whole time to make her feel better, and when she’s drinking it no longer matters who does it, but who makes her feel loved, I guess, at that moment, I just want outside perspectives, I know I should let go, and move on, it’s just I feel I cant

Cheating husband

I need advice from a guy. My husband has a “friend” who he was in a relationship with about 15 years ago. It didn’t work out between them and he and I got together 9 years ago (been married for two). I have previously found that they have been texting one another and expressed my…
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