A man I was in a seven year relationship with has left me for another person because our long distance relationship wasn’t working for either of us. I’m convinced this was, and still is, the man I will spend the rest of my life with. We keep in touch and talk as if he doesn’t have someone he’s in a relationship with and he doesn’t like talking about them because it’s not like how we use to be. In a little less than 2 years I will be going back to the place I use to live, which is where he is. If he were to ask me to be with him again should I even consider it or should I let myself go back to the way I was before him? I was a hazard to myself before him and am slowly reverting back. Professional help doesn’t work and he has been the only thing to help if even just a little.