we were together for a year and we wanted to be together big time. We were talking about money and Shenzhen probably didnt like it, the. She said “I am not so lucky that have a mother die and get an apartment as heritage” . This touched me deep inside and I yelled and insulted her and then left. She says I am violent and aggressive….. of course I shouldn’t yell or insult and I apologized and asked her to do the same. she refused and she wants no more contact ….